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Transform Your Thinking-If You Had THIS You’d Be Successful
Posted On: November 18, 2008Posted In: Success Mindset, Video Blogging
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*****DISCLAIMER******* I had plans to post this last Friday…but, I didn’t get around to writing the post, only did the video. So there will be some references from last week to this week, but the content is still on point and the references are relevant, they just aren’t in the future anymore! Haha, yall know how I do! ***********DISCLAIMER*********
That ONE Piece You Are Missing That Is Keeping You From Success
I know how it is, so many times we feel like we are so close yet so far away from where we want to be.
If we only had a little more time, if we had a little more money to invest, a little more training, more books, THAT course, etc.
Look, I’m not talking to you, maybe it’s just me….but on the real….Â
THAT’S A BUNCH OF CRAP!!!!!
Look man, as entrepreneurs you can’t keep thinking that the next thing is what will be a magic key for you! If you feel like you don’t have the time, resources, or whatever…..that won’t change when you get those things!
Yeah yeah, I know…you don’t like when I get on this stuff but it’s real. Once you change your mind about your situation, that’s when things happen….instead of looking at what you don’t have, or how little you have, look at it as opportunity.
If you have 30 minutes a day to devote to your business, don’t say “maaaaaaaaaaan, I only have a half hour, I can’t get nothing done”.
Switch that crap up, make it “Yo, I got 30 minutes man…what am I going to get done with it!” You’ll be surprised how difficult this is to do!
We’ve all been programmed to be pessimistic, especially when it comes to business and things outside of our norm.
This is something we all will fight with at various times….we say ” maaaaaan I got a lot done today, IF ONLY I COULD DO THIS ALL DAY LONG”….no, don’t even entertain that!
I know many of us want to be marketers full time, but you have to work towards it…and the best way to do that is take full advantage of what you have!
Taking It To The Next Level
Yeah, you want to get to the next level, but don’t let not being there become a crutch, hindrance, or pity party for you. Make it HAPPEN. Don’t think about the what if’s, the if I onlies, or the I only haves…they keep you in a perpetual state of complaining, stagnation, and wishful dreaming.
Wishes and dreams are only good if accompanied by action! Without action, it’s nothin! Persistence will pay off….but you MUST change your mind on how you think about the journey….know no limitations….use everything you can to your advantage.
15 minutes, 5 hours, 8 hours….really won’t make a difference if you don’t have the proper mindset.
5 bucks, 25 bucks, or 10 thousand won’t make a difference if you don’t transform how you think about your resources!
Staying in the state of “if” will never allow you to see what you do have! You’ll never realize what you DO know….what YOU CAN DO NOW!
Aight, see ya later….let me know what you think! You know I love to hear from ya!
Oh yeah…we still in the comp with Shanon Lilly..so get out there and send folks over!
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November 18th, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Joe
I know what you mean. I just went through a spell where I really didn’t want too do to much. The weather here was the biggest thing in my productivity. It has been dark, gloomy and very damp here which makes it cold.
Eventhough I managed to get out blog post my lack of commenting and other traffic activities have reflected in my traffic stats. It good that you have these video because it great for motivation on my part anyways.
Kust keep on making it happen Joe
Thanks
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November 18th, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Thanks B! Glad you liked it man! It’s good to get motivated and be reminded of things that we all know to be true. Sometimes we make it to hard…and work against ourselves. Keep pressing man!
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November 18th, 2008 at 5:51 pm
Joe I know what you mean. Looking on the bright side of things is super important. Get your ass into gear. I am doing some freelance writing at the moment which is making me get my ass into gear. Great post
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November 18th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
Good job man! I wondered where you been, that is great yo! Keep pushing man!
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November 18th, 2008 at 6:27 pm
Hi Joe, first time visitor. Great post. I find myself wishing at times if I could get an extra 4 hours in a day to get all I want to get done. I get to clicking then have to stop to go to my “regular job”. But I do try and manage my time wisely and get things done.
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Hey welcome Larry! Good to see ya! We all have these thoughts, but when we start changing how we think about them, the results are amazing. Instead of “think of what I could do if I had an extra 4 hours” we say “what can I do with the time I have now, so in the future I can have more time” lol.
Simple action with profound results.
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November 18th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
I know you’re talking about me- I’m so whiny! If I just had more focus, if I were just more dedicated, if I were just independently wealthy… (If I can only have one of the above, I’ll take #3, please!).
*lol* You’re right, though. I’m not very good at prioritizing, but I often use the “but I don’t have…” as an excuse.
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Hahahaha, I’m with 3 as well…I would NOT mind that one lol. Hahaha, just take it and apply it to one area this week, come back, and share the results!
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November 18th, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Man, you really hit it dead on. I think this is something any entrepreneur can relate to, but particularly those starting out in MMO (making money online- terminology clarification for those starting out
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Strangely, it doesn’t really stop! The only difference is, eventually you can afford all these things- you can afford that pricey seminar, that trip to Web Expo in Berlin, and that software that is “guaranteed” to increase your earnings. At this point, it’s a welcome luxury to be able to weigh your options and just decide which you really want (or in my case, have time for.)
My advice- take advantage of what’s free out there. As a successful MMO’er, I can tell you that all you need to know is on the web FOR FREE. Certainly other options might speed things up, and many may include some pretty valuable guru secrets, but as far as getting started and getting those earnings started, all it takes is a little smart research and time- not money.
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November 18th, 2008 at 9:34 pm
You got it Jeni! I think there is a difference between investing in something and putting off moving forward because you feel you’d be further along “if you only had….” you know?
Of course we should invest, and continue to look to improve the situation, but we should let that stagnate our progress! Cuz you best believe I have a list of seminars, courses, gurus, and coaching programs for each level of success I reach!
Oh…we made it here…time for Kern….what…next level…one on one coaching….oh….Mr Craig Garber…I’ll be visiting you for a day…7.5K? No problem! hahahaha
You feel me? But I don’t sit around saying…”man, if I only had that Mass Control I’d be good…or if I could only go visit Craig for a day I’d be good” those are goals I work towards….the things I’ll get one day, but not gonna let it stop what I’m doing now!
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November 18th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
This is exactly what people should be doing. Good job, great post you hit bullseye =)
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:22 pm
Whatsup Trevor, glad you liked the post man….put it to use! I know I will continue to grow in these areas, and share what I experience with you all.
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November 18th, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Nothing to add to that Joe you aced it that time. Some talk the talk but don’t want to walk. I am too busy to talk because IM walking! LET’S MAKE MONEY PEOPLE!!
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Whatup D!!!! It’s all about taking action, changing your mind…and taking advantage of the day!
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November 18th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
Dude, I know quite a few people with way more than I have, and also a few with way less (material things, time, money), and ALL of them complain about wanting more of “something”. It’s human nature want more, but you can’t use “not having something” as an excuse. There’s waaaaaaay too many success stories out there about people who have done extraordinary things with a LOT less opportunity than you have (YOU being whoever is reading this lol)!
Great post man!
Cheers!
Jay
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Yep….you got it man, it’s all in the mindset man! We can either spend time complaining about what we lack….or make use with what we have and make it happen!
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November 18th, 2008 at 11:29 pm
You are SO right, all the outside circumstances are what we choose to see and we can all choose something else – and better instead! Thank you for this reminder…
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
Glad you liked it..I hope it helps you move forward! It’s true!
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November 18th, 2008 at 11:45 pm
Yeah man, right on! I don’t have more time than anybody else available…SO you know what I do? I cut on frickin’ sleep my friend! I might be a zombie at school or work some days, but I’m doing what I love at night so that’s cool!
Time is always there, you can always squeeze things to find some. I agree some people may only be able to get 30 minutes, but 30 minutes is enough to upload a blog to a host on Monday, design a logo on Tuesday, clean things on Wednesday and Thursday and write an article on Friday! Way to go after that…
Good post buddy!
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Yep! Hahahaha….I hear ya dude, I’ve been there…and will be plenty more times in this journey. Like you indicated…it’s how you look at it. I can take that half hour and make some progress….or spend 30 minutes wishing I had an hour lol. LET’S GO!!!
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November 19th, 2008 at 4:55 am
Good thinking man, and i found it really inspiring. Sometimes its only a small difference and a extra effort which makes you more successful than others.
And yeah, we always tend to take time for granted and do not make the optimum use of it. thanks for this great post mate, cheers
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
You’re right, little changes make big improvements. One change in thought pattern can have a “butterfly effect” on the rest of your life. EVERYTHING starts with a thought….everything.
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November 19th, 2008 at 8:46 am
Love your style man. Hey I’m a man of the 70’s how about a sponsor from the 70’s maybe “don’t squeeze the charmin”. On secong thought there can’t be a big market for old farts like me.
Great post. You’re right it’s all about the cup being half full instead of half empty.
You keep up the great work
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
Luca! Good to see you buddy! You know what…according to my youtube stats, 35-54 year olds make up the majority of my video viewers! The market is HUGE…
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November 19th, 2008 at 10:12 am
I think you have a lot of wisdom and I’m glad you’re sharing it. It’s true that pessimism is very popular and we don’t always realize when we’re holding ourselves back. In fact, there’s an example in the comment before mine, by Luca (no offense, Luca). He says, ‘On secong thought there can’t be a big market for old farts like me.” And I say, “Have you heard of the baby boomer generation?” However, when it comes to my own work, I have the same issues to deal with — remembering to concentrate on what’s there, not on what I wish was there.
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:14 pm
Thanks Dot! It’s hard to see it sometimes, until others point it out…it’s so deep in our psyche that we don’t realize it. Once you do, though….IT’S ON!!!
The smallest changes can have a huge impact.
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Cool video.Having the right attitude and seeing things in a positive way makes life so much easier.
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November 19th, 2008 at 12:24 pm
Welcome to the site Tom! Glad you liked the video…it is all about the attitude and thought process, change that and you change your life! I know…I’ve done it! Look forward to seeing you around the site buddy.
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November 19th, 2008 at 1:33 pm
You hammer home the truth, my man. All the ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’ will lead you to inaction and bring you to nowhere. In business or blogging, the rules never change……so we take action with whatever we have on hands and let out mind rules the day….
Great stuff and good luck with your competition with Shannon. You CAN make it my man with whatever resources you have right now. You’ll have my support.
Yan
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November 23rd, 2008 at 3:05 pm
Thanks Yan! Always a pleasure to see you drop by, I know you’re busy lol. It’s true man…if and but means nothing in terms of your success, they are like poison!
Get rid of them at all costs and watch your progress improve exponentially!
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November 19th, 2008 at 11:00 pm
Hey sammich man! How are you?
This post truly speaks to what I’ve slowly to come realize and that is that change comes from within. It’s not some tool, book, class, etc. Sure, those things can help us, but it all comes down to whether or not we decide to make use of that information. It comes down to the motivation we have, the energy we need to take action.
What we sometimes end up doing is blaming our failure on that “thing” we bought, convincing ourselves it’s not us, but somebody else’s fault that we aren’t successful.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 3:03 pm
No doubt Mark! Too many times we let external things dictate how we will respond, act, and move.
Once you make up your mind that what you will do starts with you, then you can plot your own course man! Take control instead of being tossed to and fro!
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November 20th, 2008 at 10:45 am
Awesome man! You’re absolutely right. “If” statements and excuses are just for programming languages. We humans are capable of doing better, we don’t need “if”s and excuses. You need to analyze what you’ve got, see how you can use it, and be productive. This post gave me the spark I needed. Thanks a lot, Joe.
P.S. I just opened a large notebook and plan to use it as a daily planner and diary. I’ll try to save my time and be more productive from now onwards.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 3:02 pm
Nice on the notebook man! Get it done! If brands itself in your mind, and will spread like a virus into all you do. However, the same is true if you change that! Start thinking you can do it, starting making use of what you have…and everytime you have a challenge it won’t be “if I only had this” it will be ” what can I do with this now”
Keep going Ganesh!
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November 20th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Having the right mind state is always an important factor in setting out to accomplish your goals. If you think you will fail you will, if you know you are going to be successful then you will.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:58 pm
You got it man, everything starts in the mind…it’s amazing how many people don’t realize this. You can’t do ANYTHING without forming a thought about it first…it’s just not possible…unless it’s stuff that’s involuntary like breathing etc….
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November 20th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Joe! That was in my opinion, one of the most heart felt videos I have seen you do in a minute! I felt what you were saying and I know people with ears heard you on that one. It is not about what you want, it is about what you got and what you do with it. The End..
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:57 pm
Thanks D! Glad you liked it man…that was just me being me man. I try to express stuff I experience, stuff I learn, stuff that really helps me. I don’t just want to put a bunch of info out there…I want to put stuff that will really help others, based on how it’s helped me! Glad you was diggin it homie!
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November 21st, 2008 at 1:12 am
Man, what you wrote could have stood on its own, but the video helped it move along. I’ve been an independent consultant for 7 years, and it’s been both exhilarating and intense. Yet, I made a decision all those years ago to take my shot at being independent, and when I do it right, life is good, and even when I’m not quite doing it right, life isn’t all that bad. Course, I really need to get this internet marketing thing down, but otherwise, life isn’t so bad.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:56 pm
I know you got tons of stories to share on this subject Mitch! Being in business for yourself, for that long…I’m sure you’ve seen both sides of this and how constantly staying aware can mean the difference between success and defeat.
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November 21st, 2008 at 10:18 am
If we could change our thinking from pessimistic to optimistic we could accomplish a lot more. Making the most out of your time and keeping a positive attitude with your priorities can go a long way.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Your right, it does go a long way…I think the first step is to actually be aware of the negative thinking you’ve been programed by, or else you’ll never see the need for change.
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November 21st, 2008 at 7:05 pm
I remember that Hammer cartoon. They don’t make cartoons like that any more. They don’t market like that any more.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Yeah boyeeeeee….them was the cartoons man! I wanted a pair of those shoes man!
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November 21st, 2008 at 8:05 pm
Very good positive message. You aren’t ever going to accomplish anything great unless you have the correct mindset. Point well made.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:52 pm
U got it dude…welcome tot he site, hope to see you back again. So many folks have self defeating attitudes man, it’s wack!
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November 22nd, 2008 at 10:51 pm
Yep, no matter how negative things are, we should think of positive things to keep going. Be thankful of what we have.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Thanks for the comment and you’re right…if we remain optimistic, we will always find ways to move forward instead of thinking about all the ways we’ll can’t do something.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 12:39 am
This post = “secret” of success. In fact, it’s not even a secret. Just do it!
Great post, Joe.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:50 pm
Hahaha, you got it man, don’t know if it’s a secret but it’s something easy to forget!
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November 23rd, 2008 at 9:28 am
WOW, theres a strong statement of truth from the sammich man. Programmed is about right. It’s a pretty clear truth though. What works for me is staying focused and having a long term goal, plan, with do able steps towards achieving them. I personally post my goals in front of me on a piece of paper so I see them everyday and dont forget what I am trying to accomplish. Im kinda like a ferret at times “oooo shiny object” (know what I mean). Onthe other hand there is a lot of good info out there about e-commerce, blogging aff marketing and the likes and yes you need to pay for it. But yeah you cant be looking for the silver bullet, and sad thing is 99% of people after buying what ever product or e-book never use it.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:49 pm
You’re so right man! It’s not about getting the tools you need when the time comes, but constantly thinking you need something else to “validate” or “allow” you to have success is just wrong! Make it happen with what you have and then move forward.
You’re also right that most folks that buy ebooks never use them…that’s another post for another day! lol.
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January 24th, 2009 at 8:10 am
Another great post. Dude i like your vids very much
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January 24th, 2009 at 10:24 am
Thanks dude, glad you like them! Good to see ya sticking around.
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